Pema Chodron Quotes
Top 100 wise famous quotes and sayings by Pema Chodron
Pema Chodron Famous Quotes & Sayings
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Suffering begins to dissolve when we can question the belief or the hope that there's anywhere to hide.
Without loving-kindness for ourselves, it is difficult, if not impossible, to genuinely feel it for others.
There isn't any hell or heaven except for how we relate to our world. Hell is just resistance to life.
Patience has nothing to do with suppression. In fact, it has everything to do with a gentle, honest relationship with yourself.
Meditation is not about getting out of ourselves or achieving something better. It is about getting in touch with what you already are.
Patience takes courage. It is not an ideal state of calm. In fact, when we practice patience we will see our agitation far more clearly.
Until we stop clinging to the concept of good and evil, the world will continue to manifest as friendly goddesses and harmful demons.
Awareness is the key. Do we see the stories that we're telling ourselves and question their validity?
Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
Blaming is a way to protect your heart, trying to protect what is soft and open and tender in yourself.
The concepts of problem and solution can keep us stuck in thinking that there is an enemy and a saint or a right way and a wrong way.
Clarity and decisiveness come from the willingness to slow down, to listen to and look at what's happening.
To put it concisely, we suffer when we resist the noble and irrefutable truth of impermanence and death.
True compassion does not come from wanting to help out those less fortunate than ourselves but from realizing our kinship with all beings.
As long as we believe that there is something that will permanently satisfy our hunger for security, suffering is inevitable.
Patience is the training in abiding with the restlessness of our energy and letting things evolve at their own speed.
Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
Even if you don't feel appreciation, just look. Feel what you feel; take an interest and be curious.
WHEN we are training in the art of peace, we are not given any promises that because of our noble intentions everything will be okay.
The wisdom, the strength, the confidence - the awakened heart and mind are always accessible
here, now, always.
here, now, always.
When there's a big disappointment, we don't know if that's the end of the story. It may be just the beginning of a great adventure.
According to the Buddhist belief, you can go on and on indefinitely, so you see your life as just a brief moment in time.
When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
Leonard Cohen once said about the benefits of many years of meditation, "The less there was of me, the happier I got." Letting
We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
We can drop the fundamental hope that there is a better "me" who one day will emerge. We can't just jump over ourselves as if we were not there.
Meditation practice is not about later, when you get it all together and you're this person you really respect.
strengthening habitual patterns of suffering. We begin to see this more and more clearly, and we begin to realize that we can do something different.
When you open the door and invite in all sentient beings as your guests, you have to drop your agenda.
Many religions have meditations on death to let it penetrate our thick skulls that life doesn't last forever.
Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
The more we witness our emotional reactions and understand how they work, the easier it is to refrain.
Once we have the fixed idea "this is me," then we see everything as a threat or a promise - or something we couldn't care less about.
It's not a terrible thing that we feel fear when faced with the unknown. It is part of being alive, something we all share.
We can connect with that openness at any time. For instance, right now, for three seconds, just stop reading and pause. If
Most spiritual experiences begin with suffering. They begin with groundlessness. They begin when the rug has been pulled out from under us.
The Process of becoming unstuck requires tremendous bravery, because basically we are completely changing our way of perceiving reality ...
We think we'd be delighted to have an unconditional relationship, but that's only as long as it's on our own terms.
What happens with you when you begin to feel uneasy, unsettled, queasy? Notice the panic, notice when you instantly grab for something. (51)
While we are sitting in meditation, we are simply exploring humanity and all of creation in the form of ourselves.
To cultivate equanimity we practice catching ourselves when we feel attraction or aversion, before it hardens into grasping or negativity.
This book stresses repeatedly that it is unconditional compassion for ourselves that leads naturally to unconditional compassion for others.
Self-improvement can have temporary results, but lasting transformation occurs only when we honor ourselves as the source of wisdom and compassion.
Just prepare well and know what you want to do. Give it your best, but you really don't have a clue what's going to happen.
PATIENCE is the antidote to anger, a way to learn to love and care for whatever we meet on the path.